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Cape May Lighthouse historical landmark in Cape May, NJ
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View of Cape May Lighthouse in Cape May, NJ
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View of Cape May Lighthouse in Cape May, NJ
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Cape May Lighthouse

4.7(6,616 reviews)$Museum
🕑 1-1.5 hours (including the climb, time at the top, descent, and exploring the museum)👶 Best for ages 6 and up. Children need to be physically able to climb 199 steps and handle the height at the top. Younger kids who are strong climbers can manage with supervision, but the climb can be challenging for preschoolers and impossible with strollers or carriers.

About

The Cape May Lighthouse offers an unforgettable adventure for active families willing to tackle 199 steps to reach breathtaking panoramic views of the Atlantic Ocean and Delaware Bay. This beautifully preserved 1859 lighthouse combines physical activity with hands-on history, making it an educational experience that kids won't even realize is a learning opportunity as they count steps and scan for dolphins from the top.

Highlights

  • Climbing 199 steps up the spiral staircase,kids love the challenge and counting each one
  • 360-degree views from the top of the ocean, bay, and Cape May Point
  • Spotting wildlife like dolphins, osprey, and during migration season, hawks and monarch butterflies
  • Learning about lighthouse keeper life in the museum at the base
  • Exploring the surrounding Cape May Point State Park with nature trails and beach access

Pro Tips

  1. 1.Arrive right when they open at noon on weekends to avoid crowds and have the viewing platform less congested for photos and taking in the views
  2. 2.Make the climb a game by having kids count the steps or look for interesting details in the ironwork,it makes the ascent more engaging and less daunting
  3. 3.Bring water bottles and take breaks on the landings if needed; there's no shame in pausing, and it's a good teaching moment about pacing yourself
  4. 4.Visit the Lighthouse Keeper's dwelling and museum at the base before or after climbing to learn the history and see artifacts,it adds context kids will appreciate
  5. 5.Wear comfortable, closed-toe shoes as the metal stairs can be slippery, and avoid loose items that could fall through the open stairway

Best Time to Visit

Visit on sunny weekend afternoons in spring or fall when visibility is excellent but temperatures are mild. The climb generates body heat, so cooler weather is more comfortable than summer's heat and humidity. Weekday visits would be less crowded but note the very limited Friday-Sunday schedule.

What to Know

Admission is typically around $10 for adults and $5 for children (cash or card accepted). The lighthouse is located within Cape May Point State Park with free parking available, though no food is sold on-site so bring snacks and water for after the climb.

Seasonal Notes

Currently open only Friday-Sunday, 12:00-4:00 PM (limited winter schedule). Check ahead for expanded summer hours, which typically include more days and longer hours. Spring and fall offer the best wildlife viewing during bird and butterfly migrations. The lighthouse may close during severe weather or high winds.

Nearby Eats

The Pilot House restaurant is just a short drive away offering casual seafood and kid-friendly options with views of the harbor. For ice cream after your climb, stop at Uncle Al's Ice Cream Parlor in nearby Cape May for a sweet reward.

More Activities Near Cape May

Museum

Historic Cold Spring Village

4.5$$

Historic Cold Spring Village brings 19th-century Cape May to life through 22 beautifully restored buildings where costumed interpreters demonstrate traditional crafts like blacksmithing, weaving, and pottery-making. Kids can actively participate in hands-on activities, watch craftspeople at work, and explore authentic historic structures including a one-room schoolhouse, general store, and working farm, making history tangible and exciting for young learners.

Activity

Cape May MAC

4.4$

Cape May MAC offers delightful guided trolley tours that bring Victorian Cape May to life for families. Kids love riding the charming trolley while learning about the colorful gingerbread houses and fascinating stories from Cape May's past, making history fun and accessible for young minds.

Adventure

Cape May - Lewes Ferry

$$

The Cape May-Lewes Ferry transforms a simple crossing into an unforgettable 85-minute maritime adventure across Delaware Bay. Kids will be thrilled by the possibility of spotting dolphins swimming alongside the ferry, while parents appreciate the spacious decks, onboard amenities, and the fact that this scenic journey doubles as practical transportation between two charming coastal destinations.

Restaurant

Axelsson's Blue Claw Restaurant

$$

Axelsson's Blue Claw Restaurant serves up delicious seafood in a welcoming, casual atmosphere perfect for families exploring Cape May. Known for their kid-friendly menu alongside fresh local catches, this neighborhood favorite makes dining out with children easy and enjoyable, whether you're introducing little ones to their first crab cake or satisfying hungry beach-goers after a day on the shore.